People today have sex on the 2nd or 3rd date as part of dating
Yep, definitely my age, but I feel something’s being missed here, I’ve had my share of one night stands too, but it was with the (perhaps naive) belief that we weren’t dating someone else at the same time.
They are getting to know the other person and sex is part of that
Personally, I think people are potentially missing out on letting something more develop if you’re on to the next person or sex that quickly, just my opinion obviously. But if it makes you happy and noone is getting hurt, so be it!
Yep, definitely my age, but I feel something’s being missed here, I’ve had my share of one night stands too, but it was with the (perhaps naive) belief that we weren’t dating someone else at the same time.
They are getting to know the other person and sex is part of that
Personally, I think people are potentially missing out on letting something more develop if you’re on to the next person or sex that quickly, just my opinion obviously. But if it makes you happy and noone is getting hurt, so be it!
I guess in comparison to your generation think of it as faster dating, instead of waiting for 3 months to find you aren’t compatible, you find out within 3 weeks.
I think this is much better, life is too short to spend it with people that seemed great at the time but when you finally get to know them after months and months of dating you find out they aren’t for you.
I guess it also comes down to how many potential dates you have available to you, with Tinder there are many which means you have a much higher chance of finding the perfect partner, but if you spend 6 months with each person.. you could miss out.
I was in the same boat if so to speak, after divorcing a relationship with baggage for 9+ years or so. Lire la suite